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BBW (45) looking for Male Tracy, California, United States

I have a 11yr old son and well most things I do end up revolving around him these days some of his interest that you can find me at ice hockey, soccer, football, church, Awanis group, boy scout troop, salvation army youth group, swim team, etc.

My communication style as I believe this is the most important item to a successful relationship....I'm honest and blunt no I'm not one that purposely tries to offend, but I will speak the truth as I see it and if asked a direct question I will answer. Should for some reason I say something that seems off or offends you in some way please give me the benefit of the doubt and ask. I will do the same for you. Remember what they say when you assume....

As I read a quote on here from someone's profile " never make someone a priority when you are only an option to them". I truelly believe in that and I do make the effort no matter how busy my life gets. I expect the same if I feel I am just an option to you well to be honest I deserve better then that and well so do you.

Well I like to watch(live) Ice hockey ..... Go thunder!

I love to travel and meet new people when time and money allow.

I'm not much for going out to bars or clubs or the casino so figured i would try online for meeting new people and possibly relationships. I'm not looking for a drunk or a gambler so why would I go to those type of places to meet men?!?!?! I digress sorry!....lol

I'm very open about who I am just ask I'll tell ya just about anything just be careful what you ask who knows you may not wanna know the answer....lol

I believe in honesty and Christian values. This is not to say I'm a bible pusher or avid church goer far from it but I do believe in right and wrong and respecting yourself and others, etc. (as a side note I don't go to church as I haven't felt "at home" in one in a long time. I don't like 2 faced people and I have trouble getting past that when I see it in church)

Kid friendly is a must! I'm the house that always ends up with all the neighbor kids or friends of friends. It's common for me to think, "where the heck did they come from?" or "damn it, how did they multiple so quick guess I should make more dinner". Lol

Have a sense of humor laughing as friends is always the best place to start. :)

I speak 2 languages Danish and English. I'm a fairly intelligent person please be the same. I can't stand liars, blatant repetitive stupidity, flakes or self centered people.

I love the water must live near it or I get land phobic or some such nonsense. Love the look of snow but hate to be out in snow and ice. (I'm a natural born klutz so add ice and snow and guess what happens?!??).

I LOVE trying new things (be open to all experiences) and I will always choose the small hometown business over the chain.

I love to travel.

I despise shopping.....

I tend to be somewhat quiet in person. I like to observe and get a feel for who I'm with and my surroundings. Don't let this fool you I do have opinions and I'm not afraid to state them. I do just prefer to go with the flow if I don't have an opinion or honestly don't care.

I am a bit of an old fashioned kind of a girl I expect my man to have an opinion and be able to take action and go for what he wants within reason. I'm also single because I'm searching for the right one and not just settling. Family is very important to me and yes this includes friends as in my opinion they are the family that you choose.

I WANT a man. I don't NEED a man. Please understand the difference in these statements.

I value my friends and people I date because I CHOOSE to be with them, get to know them, and spend time with them.

I'm not particularly good at describing myself hmmm maybe a better thing to do would be to give you a few friends e-mails they can describe me better I'm sure....lol j/k

OK well I think I have rambled on enough for now.

Should you want to chat more and get to know me you can reach me
Ahhhh yes I am a BBW its just how I am built if that is a problem for you I'm sorry but I do understand :) Its kinda like I'm not attracted to men shorter then 5 ft 7in

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildVoluptuous
Height170 cm
Eye ColorGreen
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionCancer

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Bachelors
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleInvestment and loan processor

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Dramas, Movies
Favorite TV showsSupernatural, lost girl, the good wife, vampire diaries
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Family, Animation, Adult
Music typesCountry, Rock, Pop, Classical, Latin, Dance, Reggae
Reading selectionComic, Fantasy, Home & Garden, Science
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, TV, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Family, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing cards, Volunteering, Computers

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Playing video games, TV, Going to a concert, Going to a museum

Views

Political viewsNot sure
ReligionLutheran
Attend religious servicesOnce a week

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness