I'm not a competitive person, but I push myself to be the best version of myself that I can possibly be. A great relationship is one that brings out the best in you, makes you strive to be the best because of the love and admiration for your partner, but the motivation must come from within you. My favorite quotes are...if you Can, then you Must...There are no shortcuts to any place worth going. But it was good ole' Dr. Suess who coined my favorite: Be who you Are and say what you Mean, those who mind,...don't matter and those that matter, don't mind